Hari yang cerah

Minggu ni...minggu yang sangat bz...he he he...ade ke minggu yang tak bz ? balik keje mmg exhausted...sume nyer...nak kejar due date...masuk opis tu..rushing jer...

Semalam...balik keje lps maghrib...otw back...dpt msg...my office friend involved in accident...both husband and wife are my friends...wife - Maznah koma lepas terjatuh dari motor...Tengkuk patah ...husband - Jasman. patah bahu...and semalam jugak...Maznah kembali ke rahmatullah...Innalillah hiwainnalillahi rojiun..

Niat hati nak ziarah masa pagi tadi..tapi sebab nak tggu mak balik pasar...lepas pukul 10 am baru bertolak...mintak tolong my parents to take care of my boys...Sempat pi fetch my friend, Jusie...

I first time pegi Sungai Kantan, Kajang....tempat jenazah di semadikan...tapi tempat ni memang rase tenang dan nyaman jer...macam balik kampung je rase...sesat jugak sebab confuse dgn lorong2 rumah tu...tapi bila nak masuk lorong rumah yang betul tu...dah nampak van jenazah dah nak keluar...so, kite pun terus ke tanah perkuburan....

Masa sampai tu...nampak suami arwah - Jasman..I hanya mampu memberi kan salam kerana sangat sayu melihat Jasman yang tidak dapat menahan kesedihan kerana kehilangan insan yang bergelar isteri itu...

anak - anak mereka ni berusia 7 tahun dan 5 tahun...terlalu kecil untuk memahami situasi yang terjadi...and terlalu mentah untuk terima kenyataan yang...ibu mereka ni, tak akan kembali buat selama - lama nya....

Alhamdullillah...walaupun tak dapat menatap wajah arwah buat kali terakhir, tapi sempat jugak kami mengiringi jenazah ...hingga ke liang lahat...hmm...

Suasana di tanah perkuburan tadi agak tenang...hari yang cerah...dan angin bertiup nyaman...and kelihatan jugak...wajah2 yang agak familiar di sekitar kami...kebanyakannya terdiri dari staff PBB.

Arwah ni manis orang nyer...selalu jumpe kat surau..dan dia pun tak sombong. Last time jumpe dia...hari Khamis baru ni...I sampai office, lagi 5 minit nak 8.45 am..so terus pegi beli breakfast...memang rushing sangat...arwah ade kat sebelah..tapi I sempat nak tegur...and tak sangka...that is the last time for me to see her..

I still ingat lagi , bila 1 of my friend meninggal this year...ade seorang dari kenalan arwah tu rupanya dah lama tak bertegur sapa hanya kerana ade perselisihan faham between them...yang tak best nyer...pasal office matter...and bila salah seorang dah meninggal dunia...semua nya...dah terlambat kan? Patutnyer...masa kita hidup ni la kita harus bermaaf - maafan...buang la yang keruh...hidup ni hanya sementara...and fikir lah secara positif...takde masalah yang tak boleh diselesai kan...bergaduh atau bermusuh ni...sangat merugikan..

Dan sebagai manusia...kita tidak pernah sempurna..we make mistakes and we've gotta learn from it...InsyaALLAH..

sebagai makhluk ALLAH yang sangat kerdil di bumi ini...I minta ampun dan maaf kepada semua yang mengenali diri ini ..I am not perfect either !

To all, sentiasa berhati - hati di jalan raya..ingat lah org yang tersayang...

Credit card

 

Dalam zaman sekarang ni...tanyer je la sape pun...jarang betul kite dgr individu tu..takde Credit Card..betul tak?

Institusi perbankan sendiri banyak yang provide good incentives untuk sales people....pi la mane2 shopping complex....ramai btl yang dok buat marketing ...yg bagi free gift la, etc...tak terlayan kan?

Tetiba teringat  plak kat 1 of my cousin...ade 1 time tu dia kena approach by a sales person...he said that CCRIS dia x lepas..terus minah tu senyap...bagus gak excuse tu ..he he he...bad paymaster...

I pun ade gak credit card...tapi dulu ...b4 start pakai credit card ni...memang la rase.... sangat tak perlu pun....tapi bile dah start pakai...hmmm...mcm2 dugaan yg datang...I started with 1 card from the foreign bank...pastu...dengan the bank that i work with...tu pun siap kena panggil dgn GM lagi sebab i refused to accept their offer ...kira tak support our bank product la ...gitew..

Since dah kena panggil...I pun register la for my 2nd card.....

Dh bertahun2 guna card ni...tak di nafikan...mase emergency...credit card ni sangat la useful... tapi...bila sampai masa nak bayar tu...kadang2 , punye la liat...bila lambat bayar...kena charge interest pulak...tu yang tension tu...

So...lelama......dh jadi monthly commitment pulak...and bagi I....hutang credit card ni sangatlah membebankan tahap dewa punye...bagi org yang boros .... i tak nak komen la...but for myself... I mmg malas nak carry cash sbb senang nak control expenses...

Tapi kan...nafsu membeli belah ni...haiii...sesekali...blh hanyut jugak..

Senang cite...self dicipline sangat penting  bila kita guna credit card ni...ari tu sempat dengar kat radio..ade sorang caller ni bg tau yg dia pernah guna 15 jenis credit cards and it took more than 10 yrs to settle all her debts...dia cakap....dia pernah beli set pinggan yang harganya dalam 10k...phewww !!!

Ntah la...between needs and wants....or some people goes for high - end lifestyle..

therefore, credit cards are needed...tapi...kalau ujung bulan nanti...bukan org lain yang sakit...kite sendiri jugak yang sakit...

On the last Friday...I am sangat bersyukur that I had zero-rise my 2 credit cards a/c .I plan nak cancel jer...tgk la cane...soon kot.....

Malas nak delay...takut terpakai pun ado...he he he

Seriously, ade ke manusia yang tak suke shopping?

best ..best...

Banyak nyer cite yang nak di update....mane satu nak start ek....

Ok...jom cite pasal iPhone4...oficially...on Thursday 21st Oct 2010...I am also 1 of the iPhone4 user....and i feel so exited till today....thanks to my dearest friend SNI4 for the favour...siap blh catwalk lg pi KLCC tu....he he he...What is so interesting about the phone is....process nak beli tu...but most of the user , might not get to go through the same process like mine....

Let's hear my story....

After i decided to purchase....i need to switch my phone line 1st...from celcom to maxis...sounds easy but since my father registered the line under corporate package and my number is the main line...my a/c at celcom have the other sub lines a/c...ha ha ha...So, kena la bawak bapak pi celcom in order to change the a/c status to individual a/c and nak kena transfer ownership from bapak to myself...

My father registered my phone line in 1992...masa tu under TM Touch....since he was attached to Telekom M'sia...ade la few benefits and packages on the mobile phone....Lepas TM Touch merged with celcom....benefits2 tu...slowly ...no longer valid....mcm charges , etc...

But I agak loyal la jgk...till I saw the maxis brochure few mths back...good package at the reasonable fee... So now....after 18 yrs ..... I have switched my line to maxis...

 

Sounds like happening jer kan...secondary school dah ade hp kan? Trust me...It was not that fun, la...My parents will call me as and when they like...bese la kan...parents...nak tau kat mana, buat ape, pukul bape nak balik....pitching drg tu...jgn cakap la...hmmm...lagi tension plak...I do not dare to lie to my parents...so, every time they call...mmg dah kelam kabut nak balik dah...he he he ....tapi tu la...dulu hp besar2....and berat...my late grandmother said that the phone looks like "ketui batu"... 

Nowadays...hp pun dah ade byk choice...depends on individual segmentations ......

but trust me...Iphone4...is totally magic...

alahai....iPhone4...

actually dlm this month...I ade la thinking about switching my phone line ...from celcom to maxis...tetiba..i found that ...maxis ade offer few attractive package for phone line and internet service....tapi that offer comes under iPhone4 package...

Anyway...nak kena beli iPhone4 dulu la syarat nyer...he he he...u all tau2 la kan...My priority sbnr nyer...package tu....tapi since ade iPhone4 tu...kira bonus extra vaganza la...he hehe..

So, I ni sempat la cuba meng-que kan diri since early of this month...tapi tak berjaya sbb que pun dah ramai...

So,  Last Friday... I went to Machines to check out on the iPhone 4 stocks....they said...ade iPhone4 roadshow will be on 20th Oct 2010...tomorrow la kan? So, I went to Maxis to switch my phone line straight just in case on 20th tu tak yah la nk ade byk transaction kan ?

Skali tu...rupa nyer...road show tu start ari ni !!!! I tau pun dah after lunch...So after work...pi la tgk....Salesman tu cakap.....Pukul 7am dah ade org que....but the booth open on 10 am...but 10.30 am dah sold out....and they only have 150 units per day..

Nasib baik road show tu till 25th but x guarantee la ade stock..hhhmmm....

Cisss....I semalam sampai ter masuk dalam mimpi la ...he he he...mana tak nyer...

lame gak que ...alahai....kesian kan? hu hu hu....


tapi so far...i blm la give up lagi just sbb dah tertinggal keretapi ari ni kan? he he he

Afiq...1st dental surgery

Let's talk about dentist ....mostly...kids memang phobia dengan dentist...But Alhamdulillah...I am not 1 of them...he he he

teringat lagi...dulu....bila turn kena check gigi ....since my name start with "A"...kwn2 sume sibuk je push me first...so they will have longer time  to que...actually...since nama start with "A" ni...dalam ape2 acara pun...we are the first batch to go..boring gak kdg2 ...sigh...terpikir gak time tu..sal la my name tak start with M, N , or S ,ke....

tapi this time I nak cite pasal Afiq...gigi dia ade hole...nak kena filling...tapi private clinic tak nak accept dia since he won't be co-operative during the surgery....they ask me to refer to hospital jer...Pediatric Dept...

Kat GH ...nak kena que for surgery...the appointment took 2 weeks to que...tu pun they gave him some medicine to doze off first and make him feel passive...but there's another option which is...pakai bius & terus pengsan jer...yang tu...que till next year...lame kan?

so, we can't wait that long...amek ubat makan tu jer....tapi kan...ubat tu pun...depends on kids jugak...bukan sume bg impact yang samer...for some kids...tak de beza ape pun....si Afiq pulak....1/2 jam lepas makan ubat tu...dia stone & doze off terus...so, we proceeded to the surgery room....

kelihatan afiq sedang lena tido...and erul pulak terasa macam nak join Afiq tido sama...

surgery room ni memang baby's friendly...ade kids corner...siap dengan toys & books... and the dentist are nice and warm..if you guys look at the pics that I took...all of the staffs punye uniform...siap ade gambar cartoon lagi...mcm dentist Afiq ni pakai baju transformer...he he he...creative kan?

Kat wall...siap ade mural lagi...motive cartoon...cantik but tak sempat snap...nurse bagi tau yang kite tak blh amek gambar kat situ sebenarnye..oooo...ye ke....he he he
 

time ni pun...Afiq still tak sedar lagi ...tapi pelik la...erul boleh pulak terlelap pulak kat situ...tak paham betul la..he he he

time ni...Afiq dah start rase uncomfortable ...Erul pulak...dah celik sebab dia cakap...dia takut kalau tetiba dentist tu tersalah cabut gigi dia pulak ...

Tapi dalam tempoh beberapa saat jer...Afiq dah start mengamuk2....dentist tu pun suruh la wrap dia dengan kain untuk control movement yang agak tak terkawal tu...

Ni pun dia dah start terjerit2 menangis...time ni terfikir jugak...macam takde beza ape pun...makan ubat ke, tak makan ubat...same je...

dia punye la menangis...haiii...tak tau la nak cakap...erul tu I pun tak sure...tgh nak tahan ngantuk ke....or tgh tahan telinga dia sebab berdesing dengan suara Afiq yang terjerit2 menangis tu...ikut kan..tampal bukan nyer sakit sangat compare to cabut kan....

anyway...thank you to the dentist yang sangat focus on the job...dia maintain cool jer...and I love the results...great job...but end of this month...kena pi another session lagi .... hu hu hu

kenduri kahwin

Bila tengah duduk rumah sambil berehat ni...teringat tentang last week...time - time mcm ni...dah on the road dah...pi kenduri and jalan beraya...maklum lah...dah akhir Ramadhan....

hari Ahad last week....sempat la tolong apa yang patut di wedding my parent’s neighour...cuaca agak panas...tapi semua nya berjalan lancar sebab tak hujan...Harith pun sibuk betul tolong jadi penanggah...dia seronok sangat ...maybe sebab dia tak pernah involve dengan kerja - kerja kenduri kawin ni kan....

Jiran - jiran setempat sume bagi co-operation .... Sume nyer...pepagi lagi dah dtg nak tolong...gotong royong....

I pun turut terasa penat nyer kenduri ni sebab rombongan lelaki tumpang kat my parent's house...and sambil2 tu...sibuk la monitor si Harith yang exited join gotong-royong....

Ni entrance...

Harith sempat lagi posing .....

Bahagian lap pinggan & cawan...

Ni bahagian makanan ...

periuk lauk...

bahagian basuh pinggan...

in-house DJ...ni la mak pengantin perempuan...

time ni...rombongan lelaki dah start bergerak ke rumah pengantin perempuan....

time ni...dah pukul 5 pm dah pun......clear abis...

yuu huuu...

Best nyer rase hari ni...sebab hari ni hari Sabtu...he he he...For the past 2 months...Sabtu & Ahad merupakan hari yang pack dengan mcm2 acara... 

bulan Ramadhan ....selain beribadah...sibuk jugak buat persiapan untuk Syawal..bila dah Syawal...pegi rumah sedara mara , kenduri kawin, hmmm...mcm2 la..Bulan Ramadhan and Syawal punye penangan...tapi mmg seronok sangat...walaupun penat sikit sebab jalan raya sesak dengan kereta...

Let’s re-cap on some of the pics that I took during Ramadhan & Syawal

jarang tengok orang pasang pelita sekarang ni...tapi kan...pelita ni la yang buat kan rumah nampak lebih berseri especially bila menjelang malam tujuh likur....

bekas kuih pun turut main peranan ... maybe tengah "in" kot pattern macam kat dalam gambar ni...dari KL sampai Utara..hampir setiap rumah that I visited....semua peralatan makan, ade elemen - elemen yang hampir sama dengan gambar ni...same concept...tapi bese la...women and roses....or women and pink / red...memang tak dapat dipisah kan...

berseri - seri je kan? he he he...


So this year...I sempat prepared 3 type of cookies...Start buat on the last day of Ramadhan...lepas sahur....So far , I tak pernah miss lagi buat kuih raya every year...cuma this year tak buat banyak jenis jer...

my biskut mazola...

biskut arab....

chocolate chips....


tapi this year ...for chocolate chips...result agak fail la sebab too much sugar...(mmg gile2 manis...he he he )...masa prepare ni pun...dah letih giler...ngantuk...mata pun payah betul nak buka dah...he he he...yang 1st few batch...lepas masak...takde rupe cookies langsung...and I pun tak de la snap any of those pics....he he he...

bunga api ....samer mcm kat klcc masa malam merdeka tu...
payah jugak tau nak snap pic ni sebab nak kena alert on the correct timing ...maklum la...amature.... he he he

This year , erul rajin betul pi beli bunga api for the boys....sampai sekarang...on and off, they'll ask...when can they have the same moment again ? My answer is simple....next year la kan? tapi kids normally , they'll ask the same question again and again....especially Harith...dia mmg tak berapa puas hati sebab dia dah tak boleh nak main bunga api lagi...takpe...part tu ...biar la erul je yang handle...sape suruh pi beli kan? he he he....

anyway...this year Ramadhan & Syawal mmg fun la...

Today is Harith's Birthday

what a busy week ! fush....Alhamdullillah...dah hari JUmaat pun......hari yang sentiasa di tunggu2 dalam setiap minggu....hu hu hu..normally, on Friday..mmg dah letih sangat mentally & physically....especially if Monday to Thursday....time maghrib pun still ade kat opis lagi...

Bila sampai umah...dh start  cite lain pulak...every day, my boys will start talking to me on the moment they saw me came back from work....berlumba2 nak cerita what they've been doing the whole day and stuffs....

letih gak....but fun ... 

Today is Harith's 7th yrs old birthday...Cepat je rase masa tu berjalan....sebab hari ni birthday dia....I decided to treat him nicer than other days la....u know la...sometimes...kids like to do thing that might make you go crazy...and today ... I didn't ask him much when he told me just now...what he had bought today ...at the book shop during recess....

1. a pair of mechanical pen
2. Ben 10 ruler 
3. 3 pcs of eraser
4. hard cover file (siap ade cartoon2 lg)
5. ade small2 toys yang I don't really know how to play with

He told me that...the reason he bought the mechanical pen is because that pen is different than the normal pen...hhmmm....mmg la kan? Ruler pun...bukan nyer takde....and eraser tu...nape nak beli sampai 3 kan? 

(Actually....My father ni suka sangat bagi dia RM1 every day ... ni mesti hari ni dia dok sakan abis kan cash kat wallet dia tu)

Since today is his birthday....I choose... not to say much la...even...in my head...i have plenty of questions ....

Simpan je la dulu....

Happy Birthday Harith....semoga membesar menjadi seorang yang berjaya di dunia dan juga di akhirat....Amin...

Halluuu....

Lame betul amek break from blogging...bkn aper...after cuti raye...keje kat ofice pun berlambak2....sume nak kejar date line....balik umah jer...mmg penat la... mata pun ngantuk jer....During weekend jgn cakap la....acara beraya ke rumah mak menakan & kenduri kendara telah mem-pack kan schedule sepanjang bulan ni...Ni pun ade lagi rumah saudara2 dekat yang x sempat nak pergi....

Penat tu sebab distance setiap rumah tu agak jauh jugak...so, pepaham la...dgn traffic jam lagi...nak kuar dari area umah pun, dah sangkut....punyalah banyak kereta on the road skang ni...

Tapi tulah best nyer bulan Syawal ni....rezeki pun agak murah sebab mana2 pun ade saja open houses...kenduri kawin, engagement....etc...ramai yang amek berkat sempena bulan Syawal ni untuk meraikan macam2 acara...

Ni pun kejap lagi....Nak pergi majlis Bertunang sepupu erul kat Tmn Tenaga Puchong.. pakej gak majlis ni...skali dgn open house & tahlil skali...

Esok pagi....jiran kat my parent’s hse ade wedding ceremony. So, khemah pun dah siap pasang lagi since Thursday...sampai depan our place...yg best nyer...kita sume dah macam saudara rapat sebab kerja2 kawin or kenduri...biasa nyer...jiran2 involve skali...yela...gotong royong...seronok tau..

Yang menarik nye esok..umah my parents ni...jadi tempat singgah untuk pengantin lelaki & family untuk drg get ready / changing clothes, etc...and malam ni..ktrg tido kat umah mak...senang sket..sambil2 tgk majlis berinai...blh la tolong ape yang patut..

Hmmm....best nyer kenduri kawin...

Tapi if kawin kat dewan or hotel...pun best jugak...tapi mmg tak sama lar...

Pagi tadi I di kejutkan dengan berita tentang seorang rakan kerja...yang telah rebah dan terus meninggal dunia serta merta...Nazri...we are in different floor...but ...we are ex-staff for Public Finance Bhd....

To his wife and kids....tabah la menghadapi dugaan ALLAH ini....Al Fatihah